Sunday, November 18, 2012

Meladze: In 99% of people in show business, do not have a personal life

Meladze rarely gives interviews. And if they agree to an interview, denied the issues related to his family, as a rule: it is very guarded his privacy zealously. Only for "Atmospheres" singer made an exception, open about his secrets, his wife and dealing with it because of the long-legged beauty from the group "VIA Gra". Could it be that we have never learned about the singer Meladze, but could buy records Bulgarian artist Valery Miladova. This is the alias of the producers wanted to give the young trainees. But rejected its name change Meladze. Meladze: "... It seemed to take a total nonsense and suddenly become Miladovym, and even Bulgarian luck, accept my name spectators usually years ago, received the title of Honored Artist of Russia turned out to not be a Bulgarian." But it is known that the name Valerie - not really. According to his passport, because you Valerian? I was named after cosmonaut Valery Bykov. By the way, I was with him a few years ago he met, he even complimented me on his birthday - sent a telegram. But when, in 1965, the parents enroll my name in the metric, was the registrar's office representatives that Valerian - this is the full version of Valeria. So now that I associate with this name, but according to the documents, you are right - Valerian. More about naming names. I've heard that "Meladze" from Georgian as "fox" translated ... Yes, chalk - it's a fox. You feel a little fox? Not really. The only thing in my name can immediately determine my humble origin. I'm a grown man, so I will not excuses, I will not do, and do not count's royal blood. As a child I was down in the country, the home of his grandfather, relax. And I still remember what this measure were ordinary peasants tact. Actually, I think: if a man in his place, he's doing what he wants - it is noble. But a noble Georgians sang in his time: "My year - my wealth." They also raised the question of considerable years. Say a mid-life crisis, you were right? No! Sausage me hard! I thought about all the good and the transience of irreversibility bad. I felt like this: whatever you do, you will still have problems. In a word, depression. In my 25 years, there were many difficulties and problems in life. And the worse it gets, the more I reinforced the view that tomorrow everything will be fine. And if it is good today, it means that tomorrow will be even better! Well, if I have everything in order, I could not help but wait: it now goes wrong, wrong. Waiting for a holiday - it is sometimes better than the holiday itself, and waits wrong a hundred times worse than the worst. Heavy, poor condition. But now the crisis is over? I've become more philosophical about many things. Even some bad habits discarded. Stopped smoking, playing in the casino. In my view, the crisis is in the minds of many today. And it's not even at the average age. Only with people was something wrong. For example, you're on a negative attitude as a "person of Caucasian nationality"? When a month ago I made a comment to a boor, he replied: "The rules are to dictate in their homeland." And you know, I felt terribly uncomfortable. Politicians from morning to evening not only talks about the conflict of military alliances, groups and call nationality, usually Caucasian, to which I belong. While all is quiet, but it can turn into a kind of hatred. On the internet forums, I see a lot of harsh words on this topic. And after writing the young people who probably do not know what is different. Of the Russian Estonian, Georgian, Latvian But these criminals are willing to beat all in his head. And Russia do not want to get out? Where do I go? Abroad! His brother in Kiev, in Georgia, in the end There was a time when, after the idiotic statements by some Georgian politicians began closing Georgian restaurants. Instead of hidden installation - examined the Georgians. And in my construction company came. When the inspection was told that I am the founder, she replied: "Yes, even the Pope, which is most important that the Georgians it!" Then suddenly my district called me and asked, all weapons that have at my house to see (and I have it, but always has all permissions.) And the end of the story? Those who came to the construction company, said that I now have to give them money because they will constantly me "lid". Of course, they got nothing. But the fact! But at that moment I had an idea: What country can I go? And then I realized: I do not want to go anywhere! My children were born and grew up here, in Russia. I have lived here for many years. Why should I move? Come here on a residence in the details. Tell me, are you at home often? Rare. For this reason, always feel guilty about his family. And more than you need, pet children. But they have clever, it is not spoiled. This is confirmed by the teachers at the school. They all behave tactfully pointed. I have much to be proud! A husband until you get used to your frequent absences? Women are always ready to adapt to the behavior of people, as if he himself is perfect, nor lead. Was it not for this reason, found other. Now I do not believe that a man and a woman can always idyllic. There are always pitfalls. My addiction to work, I hope you understand my wife. You have not come to mind: Maybe I should not work so hard ..? I know there is nothing good there. This means that you either do not know how to properly allocate their time, or a mental disorder. Both my presence. Moments when I feel in harmony - is touring. I like traveling, like when you speak on stage with the audience. And who's the boss? Who creates order in the house? A woman! Does anyone know what and where it was, how to feed their children? A woman! A wise woman can feel her husband as the champion. To a man, but in the meantime the ready to move a large part of the responsibility on the woman. And it turns out that responsibility, we are ready to pass on to her, but as a hostess - No. Some injustice! We gradually shifted to women. Admit it: you love? Recently, this feeling I have to block (laughs). Many things that I block. Good and bad. Aware, I fell in love with the first grade. Every morning I woke up with a feeling of perfect happiness: it today at school I could see the girl Alla! And I do not need to. I just came kayfovat of her image. I lived for several years in this state - this is a little crazy. And I soon realized that I need to constantly feel to feel these emotions. I used to read materials written by psychologists: that love - develop a physiological process that a specific hormone. And this is the hormone produced no more than three years. If you believe in this stuff, it turns out that a person can not love another person for more than three years. Then in the figure everything you need? Why do people start a family? Lived for three years, and have fled. But there are couple together for 40 years. And even years to keep them together by hand, kiss, as if she had just fallen in love. And you would not want to meet her first love? Six months ago there was this meeting! I played in a suburban circus. On the edge of the arena, a woman remarked with a bouquet. He went to her, and she said, "Valerie, you do not know," I have to be honest, "No". Then she said, "I am God!" And in the twilight of the circus, I began to stare, look for the picture are the features that I had remembered. But the show went on. I asked her to stay after my speech: Do people talk about something, something to remember. Perhaps she was confused. Not leave. So we met and remained volatile. Your wife is not jealous female fans? Different periods were. She understands that life is not easy. I think they just do not generate these ideas in themselves. Survived by his self-invented rules. And it wisely. As it turned out, when tabloids attributed novels you with almost every girl in the group "VIA Gra"? Somehow worked. A novel with all the girls (laughs) credited. And on "fabrikantka" me "married". Although it was not really a time to not be captured by the camera in the "factory house." So if I had an affair with one of the participants, it is true, it would be known to all. I've heard that if your spouse ... not calm down and insisted that a clip from a member of the group "VIA Gra" will never appear on the screen It was so. This happened when the group "VIA Gra" Anna just came Sedakova. Coste, my brother and producer of the project, we had to "relax." She We decided to take it from my video "can not I can not live without you." Throughout history, there were a few moments where we embrace with Anya. Saw this woman who came to film. You, of course, all is not terribly much. The first time she asked the question open: clip is not for release. I was even angry. And if I inwardly aware that I am right, the conflict may have gone with his wife and we started to prune. But this awareness was not. Sun film in Russia and did not show. There was talk that you and your wife were not let to divorce only ... Who can say what the "ideal family"? Constant holding the handle? Joint campaign and travel? Married Life - a complex process. Someone came up with a model. I'm going for the idea that I think is not only think about 99 percent of the men to talk. The form of a family, who invented many centuries ago - a complex and sometimes unacceptable. In the family, everyone should a corner, their skeletons in the closet. I'm not talking about infidelity. Only one man needs freedom. In fisheries - Someone is a bachelor, someone expressed. But I can safely say that most men go hunting. Not only because they enjoy the process, so that they need in a simple vacation Just as women need, such as salons. You said that a man and a woman is not always smooth. And you have a family history of four women! How do I get there? Eldest daughter 17 years! Thank God, Inga quietly witnessed the transition adolescence. But when I spoke to her, we often feel a little old fashioned and conservative pope. Although, as it turned out, in England, where she learns that. Exact same old-fashioned and conservative parents of her friends I think it's good. There it is - just a girl, and here would be the daughter Meladze ... I think that there just playing a negative role. I would not at least one of my daughters got into show business. This is a very big challenge for the psyche. Well it bounce! Only if a producer. In 99 percent of people in show business, personal life did not work. Meladze and a woman and the other two girls? I love them all equally, but that the average Sonia - problem child. In the sense that I just take with me on tour. Or if I go to Kiev. To his brother Costa She lives with me in the same rhythm. You lark, as I do. Whenever I wake up early in the morning, she would never say, "Dad, let me go back to sleep." It is enough to open the case, and they will tell you that the morning would wear that evening. There are times when she was still very tired after the move begins what I was joking complain, "stop whining, stop. Otherwise, I will not take the next trip." - "Daddy, it's okay!" And no problem. And she is only nine years old. Arishka young. She is a very bright child, cool, loving. Good girl. You - the person is free of conflict. However, they say if you have had problems with Alla Pugacheva. Pugacheva with me for the first time when I and my producer Evgeny Fridlyand just begun the first steps on the stage. She invited me to a "Christmas meetings". What I told her very much to this day. The story is. Pugachev had my file and called Friedland, they say, let me look at this guy. She was referring to my pictures, posters, which I was not there. Zhenya took me to the show. It confuses the situation. She said Friedland, "Well hello, I take a photo of him has in mind, and it did me a man." But invited the concerts. After a few years ago was a "Christmas meetings", but, you see, there were too many artists and Alla began to reduce the number of musicians. You have me. So there was a serious conflict, I'm just very excited. And vowed never to take to participate in the action. However, I admit that for people like Pugachev Kobzon, Rotary, should be equal. And some sing a few songs and see themselves as the star. It's like a joke - a sick doctor says ".! Not to listen to the patient that he Napoleon After Napoleon - it's me" Do not you feel sorry for his brother Konstantin, when from his group "VIA Gra" go girl in which it the money? Of course, I'm sorry. And I hate this situation. Kostya is probably smarter man than I am. He realizes that the girl fall in love, get married, have children. He can not say, "do not give birth, not to marry." After all this time for all the girls - the most important thing in life. So what is the point of the press, sign contracts? Another thing (that is my personal opinion), if a rich man marries a girl from the group "VIA Gra", it should come as a decent man to the manufacturer and say, "You know, if my lover not in your group sing, I would not have met. And I want to compensate for a sense of gratitude to a certain degree, your loss. "I am sure that Kostya would not take the money. But the important fact! However, it is not one of the guys zhenivshihsya the girls from the group "VIA Gra", as is done (laughs). Are you looking for Costin stations? Kostya speak on all subjects with me. I do not know, it communicates with the girls or not. And you, my brother, it turns out, not really trust? No, we have an open relationship. While there where we did not talk. Sometimes the bones of psychological problems are I hear from someone else. Or he is me. And he hurried to help me, even if I do not know.

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